Messages to a Cheating Boyfriend or Husband

Browse through our collection of original messages you can send to your boyfriend or husband for cheating on you! Getting cheated on is probably one of the worst emotions a person can feel. After pledging your trust and love to someone, seeing it thrown to the side can break you. All these feelings pile up and cannot form themselves into words for you to explain to your husband how this despicable act has made you feel. But this is why we are here for! We have provided you with that extra push you need to explain how that ultimate act of betrayal has made you feel! You can either use these intact or use them to gain inspiration to cater to your emotions and fit your situation perfectly!Never cheat on someone that is good to you. Karma is a bitch.

Cheating Relationship Text Messages

  • It’s been a while since I got all the evidence that proved my suspicions. I cannot believe that you had the nerve after all this time to go out and do something like this. I don’t even want to see you in front of me again.
  • I can’t believe you thought I was stupid enough to believe all of your lies. After all the trust I placed in you it only took a single moment to destroy everything. You indeed are a despicable person.
  • I don’t know what’s worse, that you lied to me or that you think I’m stupid enough to believe your lies!
  • I may forgive you, but I am not stupid enough to trust you again. Cheating me was your choice, not a mistake.
  • The funny thing about apologizing is that you are supposed not to go ahead and make the same mistake again. Someone didn’t teach you the word correctly. But who cares anyway, you will have all the time to go and learn every single word by heart now that you’re single.
  • I have been questioning your faithfulness for quite some time now, but I always thought it was in my head. Knowing you for most of my life I felt I had indeed found the love of my life. I couldn’t have been more wrong. All I saw was a cheating lying ex-husband.
  • Life has a funny way of teaching us that it’s not a fairy tale. Sometimes it comes in the form of an explanation, others in the kind of a cheating husband, showing you that you weren’t the princess in the end.
  • If life has taught me something, is that I must always forgive, but never forget. So, I may not be that upset with you know and sincerely tell you that everything is ok, but don’t expect anything to be the same ever again! Once the glass breaks, it can’t be repaired.
  • Since apparently, you thought I wasn’t good enough to be your only woman, then I guess it’s time to let you find a better one.
  • Don’t think you’re some hot stud because you were cheating on me and I never found out. I was just trusting you more than you could have ever deserved.
  • You could have just left, said you don’t want this to continue, take your dignity and go home with a simple break-up and continue your life with this new lady-friend you have. But you got greedy, decided you wanted to keep us both. Well then, now you have nothing, so have a nice day.


Messages to Cheating Boyfriend and Lying Husband

  • I’ve tried my absolute best to be the best wife anyone could ever have. For some reason, you thought I didn’t even deserve an explanation for all that happened. If I wasn’t good enough for you, then you should have just left!
  • You’ve done many things wrong in this relationship ever since we first started dating, but I let everything slip because I thought you loved me. Now that I know that your love is directed elsewhere, I don’t have to put up with you anymore.
  • The toughest part of letting a cheating husband go is realizing that he was only waiting for your confirmation. So goodbye then, go to the person that makes you happy, since you were too much of a coward to tell me what you wanted.
  • After all these years of problems with our marriage, you had to go ahead throw the last drop. It’s a shame knowing that every time you tell her you’re going for work meetings or getting a beer with your friends, you’re most likely going to be cheating on her as well. This is the kind of person you are, never content, never happy.
  • I was so happy when I first met you, thinking I had met the love of my life and we would be together forever. At least that was what you had promised me. I didn’t know that forever had an expiration date, but it did. It all went wrong when you first laid eyes on the woman that got between us.
  • You must be feeling like a real man now that you’ve broken a woman’s heart in the worst way imaginable. Thinking that all the times I touched you, those very hands had been in places I can’t even begin to imagine just a few moments earlier. You disgust me.


Quotes about Cheating

  • Men cannot survive without cheating, it is in their nature.
  • No woman could love a cheater and not pay the price for it.
  • Never cheat on someone good to you. Karma is a bitch.
  • Cheating and lying aren’t struggles, they’re reasons to break up.
  • He’s living his life so stop letting him get in the way of you living yours.
  • Next, to hurt my family, cheating on me is the worst thing someone could do.
  • Cheating on a good person is like throwing away a diamond and picking up a rock.
  • You didn’t just cheat on me; you cheated on us. You didn’t just break my heart; you broke our future.
  • I can’t deal with someone wanting to take a relationship backward or needing space or cheating on you.
  • I gave my heart to a man who loved me, who wanted to be with me. Who ultimately was afraid of all I offered.
  • He’d lost the only part of his life that made it worth living because of a couple random fucks. How ridiculous.


  • If another woman steals your man, there’s no better revenge than letting her keep him. Real men can’t be stolen.
  • No relationship is ever a waste of time. If it didn’t bring you what you want, it taught you what you don’t want.
  • Earthquakes just happen. Tornadoes just occur. Your tongue does not just happen to fall into some other girl’s mouth!
  • When a man cheats, it is said it is because he is a dog. When a woman cheats, it is said it is because her man is a dog.
  • Betrayal was what I felt, my heart broken not just by a guy I was in love with, but also by, as I once believed, a true friend.
  • It might sound ordinary for a woman to find out her husband’s cheating on her, but not if you’re the woman and it’s your husband.
  • People cheat when they are afraid. When there is no cost to being wrong or confessing ignorance, there is no reason to cheat or fake comprehension.
  • Seriously, if the bastards cheat on you, then they don’t deserve you anyway. If that’s a legit fear, then you probably shouldn’t be with them, to begin with.
  • The terrifying thing about undiscovered lies is that they have a higher capacity to diminish us than exposed ones. They erode our strength, our self-esteem, our very foundation.
  • Those who cheat on their partners who are loyal to them; don’t deserve them. It is a trashy attitude to disrespect a person who is faithful in a relationship, by cheating on him or her.
  • I’ve told Billy if I ever caught him cheating, I wouldn’t kill him because I love his children and they need a dad. But I would beat him up. I know where all of his sports injuries are.
  • The more people rationalize cheating, the more it becomes a culture of dishonesty. And that can become a vicious, downward cycle. Because suddenly, if everyone else is cheating, you feel a need to cheat, too.
  • When people cheat in any arena, they diminish themselves—they threaten their own self-esteem and their relationships with others by undermining the trust they have in their ability to succeed and in their ability to be true.
  • Virtually all women will always carry the scars and a deep sense of loss and grief from the betrayal. Whether a woman has stayed, left, or been left, it must be remembered that time is the salve on this journey towards forgiveness and healing, because it is also a process of grieving.
  • I didn’t understand why he sabotaged our future at the time – cheating on me, again, as we were making final plans to move in together. By the time he came over to smooth talk his way out of it, I was done. No more crying. Even my tears had given up on him. I’d already moved on, his cheating was merely the key left in the mailbox.
  • Some people view love and romance as a sacred bond between two individuals. Other people see love as a game, where the goal is to manipulate another individual and gain emotional power over a partner. People who view love as a game are much more likely to have multiple love interest; cheating is just another way to gain control over one’s partner.


Best Cheating Messages with Images

He's living his life so stop letting him get in the way of you living yours. No woman could love a cheater and not pay the price for it. You didn’t just cheat on me; you cheated on us. You didn’t just break my heart; you broke our future.

I don’t know what’s worse, that you lied to me or that you think I’m stupid enough to believe your lies! I may forgive you, but I am not stupid enough to trust you again. Cheating me was your choice, not a mistake.

Tips for Coping When Your Partner Is Unfaithful

That was it! If I have one last comment to add, is that no matter how angry, disgusted or upset you are, you must never swoop down to their level.  I know that your first instinct is to start shouting and throwing anything you can find towards him but don’t. Showing to him that you are better than that and politely resolving the argument, indicating that you just don’t care anymore will make him hurt more than shouting at him would. Instead of feeling angry and sad, used and betrayed, just feel glad because you got a toxic person filtered out of your life and you barely had to do a thing. Imagine what would have happened if you stayed with him a bit longer. A man who is enough of an idiot to cheat on a lady is capable of doing anything. So believe me, this way at least you found out before you got hurt.

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